Ruth and I met in 1979 in Roanoke Va. We worked together with Barbara, Kay, Rathma, and me we stay close for 37 years all five of us we would meet every two months and go out for lunch. Sometimes we go back to Ruth's  and she would have a beautiful table set and  a delicious dessert. She was a true Southeren Lady and I will miss her so very much. She raised two wonderful children. She  is with her son now in heaven. And Amber as long as you are on this earth your mama will be here too. Love Judy Clark